Sexy handcuffed to bed

Dear Carole, Why does my girlfriend enjoy being tied up? Sex always involves rope, handcuffs or restraints of some sort, and often uniforms. She is anything but submissive outside the bedroom, but seems unable to achieve orgasm without being restrained in some way.

We found a pair of handcuffs in her closet a gag gift from her best friendwhich I silently decided to keep for a rainy day. Well that sounds regrettable. Throughout all of this, my girlfriend, bless her heart, was in surprisingly good spirits about the whole thing, despite her hands being chained to the post above her head, which was very uncomfortable, and lacking somewhat in the clothing department. Grab a Snickers!

The position we typically picture when we imagine sexy uses for handcuffs or restraints; using one cuff on each wrist, the cuffs are used to tie both hands together. They can be threaded through the headboard if you have the right kind of bed or something else, like the banisters of a staircase, with the restrained partner lying on their back or stomach. When using adjustable ties, cinching them tight keeps your partner leaning forward yet unable to support their weight with their arms.

Woman handcuffed. Female hands are handcuffed. Cropped image of businesswoman standing with hands in pockets isolated on white.

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Handcuff your wrists together in front of you, so you can still reach down and play with your clit as your partner thrusts into you. Handcuff your wrists together in back of you, so your partner can grab the chain and control your arms during Doggie Style. Move out of the bedroom.

You two have intense careers and a great sex life. Any tips for other busy couples? Rich: Kill two birds with one stone by combining eating, which everyone has to do, with having sex.